Couples Support & Discernment Counselling
Helping couples find clarity when the relationship feels uncertain
Couples Support & Discernment Counselling is designed for relationships at a crossroads when one or both partners are unsure whether to stay together or separate.
This service supports couples where:
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One partner feels emotionally checked out
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The other partner still wants to try
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You’re staying together mainly for the children
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Infidelity, betrayal, or an anger episode has significantly changed the relationship
The focus is not on fixing the relationship immediately, but on slowing things down and gaining clarity before making major decisions.
What is Discernment Counselling?
Discernment counselling is not the same as traditional couples therapy.
It is:
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Short-term and structured
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Focused on understanding what has led to the current situation
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Designed to support thoughtful, informed decision-making
The aim is to help both partners gain clarity about whether to:
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Work towards rebuilding the relationship, or
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Separate in a respectful, considered way
Simply put, it’s about getting clarity before making big decisions.
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“Shivani stands out as a therapist with exceptional empathy and expertise. Her specialised knowledge in anxiety, relationships, trauma and women's mental health, combined with her warm demeanour makes her an invaluable resource for those seeking support.”
Robert Azize
Counsellor, ACA-L1
Who is this service for?
This service is for couples who are unsure about the future of their relationship, considering separation but not yet certain, affected by infidelity, anger, or loss of trust, or parents wanting to make child-focused decisions. Sessions are available in person or online and provide a neutral, supportive space where both partners are heard.
Why consider this before mediation or legal action?
Many couples move quickly into legal or mediation processes while feeling overwhelmed, emotional, or unclear. Discernment counselling offers a calmer starting point.
This approach can:
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Reduce stress, conflict, and emotional overwhelm
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Give both partners space to express their truth without pressure
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Help you think clearly about your children’s needs
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Save time, money, and emotional strain
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Lead to more respectful outcomes whichever path you choose
